<P>Our children can be our greatest teachers. <P>Parenting expert Susan Stiffelman writes that the very behaviors that push our buttons — refusing to cooperate or ignoring our requests — can help us build awareness and shed old patterns allowing us to raise our children with greater ease and enjoyment. <P>Filled with practical advice powerful exercises and fascinating stories from her clinical work <I>Parenting with Presence</I> teaches us how to become the parents we most want to be while raising confident caring children.