<p>Getting divorced is almost never easy but this practical plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces common law and same-sex marriages and even custody law — and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling post-divorce life.</p><p></p><ul><li>Understand the divorce process — review the key issues and decisions get your finances in order and file the petition</li><li>Decide whether divorce is the best option — weigh the pros and cons of separation consider marriage counseling and learn about annulments</li><li>Put things in motion — initiate the proceedings break the news to your spouse and children and deal with your emotions</li><li>Make important and difficult decisions - divide your assets and debts make a case for spousal support and get the best custody arrangement for your children</li><li>Protect yourself — plan for life after divorce safeguard your money and take action if things turn unfriendly or dangerous</li><li>Avoid a divorce trial — negotiate your own divorce seek help from an attorney and work with a mediator</li></ul>
